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Faculty
members and staff are in a great position to recognize students who
are struggling with the interpersonal, academic, social, and/or
financial demands of college. To help connect students needing help
with the help they need, here is some practical information that may
assist you and the student in accessing the resources available on
campus.
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SIGNS OF DISTRESS |
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WHEN TO REFER A STUDENT |
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SUPPORTING STUDENTS AFTER A TRAUMATIC EVENT |
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SIGNS OF DISTRESS
What
you may notice if a student is experiencing the early to middle stages
of emotional distress:
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Marked decline in attendance and/or academic performance, tardiness,
or missed tests/assignments.
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Change in interpersonal behavior – increase in aggressive or
disruptive actions, or withdrawal from class, group, or peer
activities.
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Mood
swings, hyperactivity, noticeable changes in appearance, poor
hygiene, reoccurring illness, evidence of crying, alcohol on the
breath, apathy, or lower tolerance for frustration.
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Increased use of excuses or continually confused/forgetful about
assignments.
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Constant references to working, partying, or non-academic
activities.
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Problems with concentration, memory, test taking, or ability to
learn.
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Less
able to adapt and/or find solutions to problems – thoughts,
feelings, and behaviors are described in negative terms (can’t,
won’t, don’t, never, should/would/could have).
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Frequent references to problems with academic, family, health,
social, financial, relationship, legal, or employment situations.
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Decrease or marked increase in the level and quality of
communication with peers or faculty.
Possible interventions for the above
stages:
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Choose a way to intervene with the student that is most comfortable
for you – request he/she see you after class, or write a note
requesting the student schedule a time to meet with you during
office hours. You may choose to limit the focus of the meeting to
academic/classroom issues or provide the opportunity to discuss
personal issues. Treat the student with respect and do not make an
issue of the student’s behavior in the open classroom.
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Speak to the student in a private setting; explain your reasons for
concern (“I’ve noticed you have been coming late to class and you
have one assignment overdue. I’m concerned about how you are
handling your responsibility.”). Listen attentively. A few minutes
of attention can help clarify what is going on with the student. It
also provides an opportunity to give encouragement and provide
options on how to resolve the issues the student is facing.
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Listen for and reflect thoughts and feelings (“It sounds like you
are having a really tough time getting over the breakup with your
girlfriend”), and ask how the student thinks he may deal with the
issue (“Have you thought about talking to someone about how you are
feeling?” or “What do you think you can do to deal with the
situation?”). Resist telling the student what to do. Provide
options and allow the student to choose for him/herself. Suggest
he/she check out the
Counseling Services web site for resource
information directed to college related concerns or schedule a time
to meet with a counselor.
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Avoid judgments and assumptions. Give the student the opportunity
to explain the situation and come up with possible solutions.
Attempt to come to an understanding about what the student will do
next to improve the situation.
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Follow up. Let the student know you notice an improvement or that
you still have concerns because the behavior has not changed in a
positive direction.
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Suggest the student access University resources to seek solutions to
the problem (study skills, tutoring, math center, writing center).
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Refer the student to Counseling Services using the
Early Alert Referral System (E.A.R.S.) program
or contact a counselor (871-7680).
What a student may exhibit if he/she is in the
crisis stage of
emotional distress:
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Expression of helplessness, lack of control over emotions (sadness,
anxiety, anger), or withdrawal/isolation from faculty and peers.
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Confused or disturbing communication patterns (incoherent speech,
expressing grandiose beliefs, disorganized or rambling
communications).
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Expression (written, verbal, or behavioral) of suicidal or self
destructive thoughts/actions.
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Exhibiting challenging, hostile, disruptive, threatening, or violent
behaviors and/or communications toward others.
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Loss
of contact with reality (visual or auditory hallucinations,
expression of thoughts or behaviors not consistent with reality).
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Possible interventions for a
student in
crisis:
A
student in crisis needs immediate intervention. The following steps
are recommended:
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Remain calm and communicate with the student in a non-threatening
manner.
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If
necessary, ask that the student wait in a private, safe area (office
or classroom).
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Contact Counseling Services by phone or, if appropriate, escort the
student to the Counseling Services Office.
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If
the student is threatening or despondent, call the Campus Police and
Safety Office.
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If the student insists on leaving, allow him/her to
do so and contact Counseling Services or the Campus Police and
Safety Office.
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Emergency instructions and phone numbers.
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WHEN TO REFER A STUDENT
Refer
a student when you are faced with one or more of the following.
Whenever possible inform the student of the reasons for the referral.
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The
problem is not going away, is getting more serious, or you are
feeling less comfortable handling the situation on your own.
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The
student is unresponsive to, or resists, your efforts to intervene.
The student is unwilling or unable to change.
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The
student requests information you are unable to provide.
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Your
schedule, stress level, or willingness to help interfere with your
ability to provide an adequate intervention.
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You
may be unable to be objective because of previous dealings with, or
knowledge about, the student.
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It is
not unusual for students to resist the idea of seeking counseling. If
the student chooses not to seek help, he/she cannot be forced. It is
best to continue to show concern and encourage the student to seek
help from family, friends, Resident Advisor, clergy, or someone he/she
trusts who is in a position to help. If you are not sure what to do,
consider calling a counselor at Counseling Services for a consultation
or submitting an
E.A.R.S. form.
If a student is willing to seek
counseling, you can help in the referral process by:
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Letting the student call from your office to schedule a counseling
appointment.
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Informing the student you will submit an
E.A.R.S. form and a
counselor will contact him/her.
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Suggesting the student check out the
Counseling Services web site
for self-help information.
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Giving the student the phone number and address of the Counseling
Services Office and encouraging him/her to schedule an appointment
at his/her convenience.
If a
student is willing to seek counseling, though wishes to do so
off-campus, you can refer him/her to the
Community Resources page of
the
Counseling Services web site or encourage the student to speak
with a counselor who can help facilitate the off campus referral.
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SUPPORTING STUDENTS AFTER A TRAUMATIC
EVENT
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Traumatic events occur on and off the college campus and can often
leave students, faculty, and the community feeling uneasy and
uncertain of how to respond. Some events affect only a few
students and other events may impact small to large groups of
students, or the community as a whole.
If a
tragic event occurs that has impact on students, it is suggested that
some class time be used to allow students the opportunity to vent
their emotions and thoughts about the event. This debriefing can
serve as an initial support in the healing process. Giving
students the opportunity to express their feelings can reduce some of
the stress of the event and communicates that you are concerned.
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Some
guidelines to consider include:
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Express how you are feeling about the event and ask the class how
they are dealing with the event. Emphasize that feeling sad,
confused, numb, or overwhelmed is normal after a traumatic event.
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Give
students the time to process how they are feeling and share with
them that talking about the effects of a trauma can be helpful to
both individuals and groups.
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Sharing of personal feelings and thoughts should be voluntary, and
students should be encouraged to share only what they feel
comfortable sharing. If no one wishes to share, then let the class
know that you are available to meet with them individually and
remind them of your office hours, phone number, and email. Let the
class know that Counseling Services and Campus Ministry staff are
available to support students affected by the trauma, and encourage
them to talk to family and friends who they trust and with whom they
feel comfortable.
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Validate students' feelings by responding in general supportive
terms: “Thank you for sharing.” “It is difficult to know how to
feel right now.” “It is difficult to find a way to explain how this
happened.” “There are no answers right now; it is good we can
support each other.”
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Help
the students understand that different people have different
responses to stressful events and that each person copes in ways
that make him/her feel most comfortable.
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Help
students to understand that what they are feeling is normal in the
wake of a traumatic event and that they have an opportunity to grow
from the experience.
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Let
students know it is important that they take care of their own
emotional, physical, and academic needs during this difficult time.
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If
you are concerned about an individual student let him/her know that
you are concerned and suggest he/she meet with a counselor for
support.
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In
the weeks or months after the event be mindful of how the group or
individual students are handling themselves. Do not hesitate to ask
a student how he/she is doing or to refer a student for counseling
if he/she appears to be struggling.
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Resources for coping with trauma, grief, stress, and anxiety.
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Counseling Services ~
Palumbo Academic Center, Room 1040 ~ 814.871.7680
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